Is it possible that your friends are sabotaging your relationship?
When you need to disclose your secret, you turn to your buddies rather than your parents or relatives.
One of the most important things in close friends is that we spell out all the in’s and out’s about us. There are no rules about not sharing your commitments with your best friends, what matters is how they deal with them.
Sometimes we hide sharing a few things to avoid appearing weak or unfit to be in relationships in front of our friends, or perhaps because they are fully aware that their friend is against relationships and may try to manipulate us to rethink our thoughts as well. Giving relationship advice and influencing our thoughts against relationships are two different things, and when it comes to manipulating thoughts against relationships, it should be clear that it should not be entertained. These kinds of friends will have some hidden motives, here is some type of friends who will try to ruin your love life.
I’ve heard horrible things about him/her
Friends are those who provide us with great advice and assist us in all aspects of our lives. However, friends might become too possessive and try to expose their friend’s partner by asking others or spying on them on various social media platforms. On one hand, stalking isn’t a bad thing because they genuinely care about their friend and don’t want their life to be ruined by any inconvenience caused by their partner, but on the other hand, the so-called “Over possessive stalking” isn’t well taken for a relationship to work because they point out every bad point in their friend’s life about their partner, making it difficult to remain consistent in the relationship, resulting in conflicts making the statement “I’ve heard horrible things about him/her.
Seems to be like your priorities have changed
Every one of us has at least one long-time friend. They don’t mean to be mean; they simply know too much about us and who we are. As a reason, when your best friend criticizes your partner, you prefer to listen without question since you trust your best friend more than your partner. Commenting “Seems like your priorities have changed” prompts us to think more about our best friend and stop believing in their partner, which ultimately turns out to be a disaster.
Did you get to know about your ex?
Friends have a propensity to know a lot about our ex-partners. There are also instances when one of your good friends is still friends with your ex-partner, which might bring back memories or make us feel horrible about our past. When they see you happier with your current partner, they become envious and go to great lengths to bring you back to your ex when you have already moved on.
He / She is arguing too much with you, Do you think it will last?
Some of them get too much involved with your love life. When they are having usual fights and arguments with your partner, they might make you think that he/she is not a good partner for you or make you question how long your relationship might last. This might eventually affect your bond with your partner.
Do you want this again after all that has happened to you before?
Let’s assume your friends are usually supportive of you, but when it’s time for you to move on, they aren’t. They remind you of your history and ask, “Do you want this after all that has happened to you before?”, making you feel as if you don’t deserve it and that it will be messy for you, which isn’t good. It should be emphasized that our previous commitment cannot determine our future commitments, and as a result, conditions such as “Fear of Commitment” occur.
“It is necessary to give advice, but it is how they do it that is important” Concluding, it’s critical to comprehend your partner’s commitment and your closest friend’s trust. As a result, the answer to this question depends on what kind of friends you seek advice from and how you act on that advice.
